How to Find Your Home Decor Style

Decorating your home should be fun—but let’s be real, sometimes it feels overwhelming. Maybe you love everything, or maybe you’re stuck between two totally opposite styles. Maybe your DIY skills don’t match your Pinterest dreams, and let’s not even talk about how expensive decorating can be.

If you’re asking yourself: How do I figure out my home decor style and actually stick to a budget?—you’re not alone.

Here’s my honest answer:

Give it more time. Time to experiment. Time to refine. Time to discover what you really love (and what you actually don’t).

How to Find Your Home Decor Style

In this post, I’m sharing my tried-and-true tips for finding your personal decorating style, avoiding costly mistakes, and making your home feel like you—without rushing into big purchases or projects you’ll regret.

1. Learn What DIY Projects Actually Work for You

When Pinterest first exploded, I wanted to DIY everything. And I did. But, let’s just say… it all looked a little too DIY.

Over time, I figured out what types of DIYs I could pull off—and what I should leave to the pros (or, you know, just buy).

What works for me: painting furniture.
What doesn’t: hand-painted canvas art.

If you’re new to furniture flips, grab my Furniture Painting Guide to avoid beginner mistakes and get that high-end look.

2. Mix Styles the Right Way

Most of us like more than one style. You don’t have to choose between modern, farmhouse, coastal, or boho—you can mix them! But to make it feel intentional (and not like a flea market exploded), there’s one key design rule that changed the game for me:

Repeat each style at least three times throughout your home.

Love coastal elements but mostly decorate farmhouse? Don’t just throw a giant seashell on the coffee table and call it good. Instead, sprinkle in three subtle nods to the beach: maybe a woven basket, driftwood-toned frames, and soft blue textiles. When done intentionally, blending styles feels natural—not random.

Pro tip: Shop places like Target, Wayfair, HomeGoods, and your favorite thrift stores to find those “bridge” pieces that help tie your styles together.

3. Be Patient With Your Budget

Decorating on a budget? Same here. That’s why patience is your secret weapon.

Don’t feel pressure to fill a room right away. My front room was basically empty for a year except for one lonely chair—and I’m totally okay with that. I’d rather wait and buy the right pieces than fill my space with things I’ll want to replace in six months.

4. Know When to Hold Out for Something Better

A great example: my dining room chairs.

I searched high and low for something unique, and almost caved on a trendy (but overpriced and overdone) option. Then I stumbled across a set at a local vintage shop—$100 for all four—and they were perfect. Waiting saved me hundreds and gave me something I truly love.

The lesson? Don’t rush it. The perfect piece might be just around the corner—at the right price.

5. Edit as You Go

Your style will evolve—and that’s a good thing.

If I had decorated my whole house the week we moved in, I’d probably hate it now. Taking your time gives you space to refine your style, add pieces you love, and let go of things that no longer fit.

I love how my master bedroom has slowly taken on a modern, mid-century vibe. It gives me all the cozy, clean-line feels. And I’m equally excited about the direction our kitchen is headed.

A rotating decor style is totally normal. (Blame marketing, trends, or your ever-changing Pinterest board.) Most interior designers agree: a room is never really “done.” So enjoy the process.

Take Your Time & Trust Your Taste

Finding your home decor style isn’t about copying someone else’s vibe—it’s about slowly creating a space that feels right for you.

You don’t need to have it all figured out on day one. Take your time, experiment with styles, invest in quality when it counts, and don’t be afraid to pivot as you go.

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